Friday, August 27, 2004

wah cinta itu unik juga ya... :-/

CINTA, antara dua insan dimasa remaja yg lembab ini adalah cinta, yg masih terikat dgn dualisme karakter: kekanakkan yg menajam dan kedewasaan yg menjanin. Meski kekanakan & kedewasaaan akan tetap menjadi warna bagi seorg manusia selama hidupnya. Warna yg bila dibingkai dalam keridhaan Allah, akan menjadi warna-warni surgawi.
"celupan warna allah dan siapakah yg lebih baik celupan warnanya daripada Allah? Dan hanya kepdNyalah kami menyembah" (Albaqorah 138)

goresan Alimam Ibnu Dawud Azh Zhahiri memberikan untuk kita "Cinta....." goresan beliau "adalah cermin bagi org yg sedang jatuh cinta u/ mengetahui watak dan kelemahlembutan dirinya dalam citra kekasihnya. karena sebenarnya ia tidak jatuh cinta kecuali kepada dirinya sendiri"

Gus Iip Wijayanto mengungkapkan "pemerkosaan atas nama cinta" atau jatuh sebelumnya digambarkan dr.Ali Akbar sebagai ucapan seorg pemuda,"aku mencintaimu....", tp sebenarnya berbunyi, "aku ingin berzina dengan mu.."

maka jujurlah pada ku..., ini cinta atau nafsu?

"maka apakah orang2 yg dijadikan (oleh syaithan)menganggap baik pekerjaannya yang buruk lalu dia menyakini pekerjaan itu baik(sama dengan orang yg tidak ditipu syaitan)?.... (fathir 8)

"dan aku tidak berlepas diri dari nafsu itu selalu menyuruh kepada keburukan, kecuali yg diberi rahmat oleh Rabbku. sesungguhnya Rabbku, maha Pengampun lagi Maha Penyayang."(yusuf 53)

"dan janganlah kalian mendekati zina. sesungguhnya zina adalah perbuatan keji dan jaln yg buruk." (al-isra' 32)

sebagian diantara tanda2 kemaha besaran Allah adalah, Dia menciptakan untuk kalian Istri2 dari jenis kalian sendiri, supaya kalian cenderung dan merasa tentaram kepada nya. dan Ia jadikan diantara kalian mawaddha dan warahmah....."(ar-ruum 21)

to be continiue......

Wednesday, August 11, 2004

lystrata's

Summary Of Lysistrata
Lysistrata has planned a meeting between all of the women of Greece to discuss the plan to end the Peloponnesian War. As Lysistrata waits for the women of Sparta, Thebes, and other areas to meet her she curses the weakness of women. Lysistrata plans to ask the women to refuse sex with their husbands until a treaty for peace has been signed. Lysistrata has also made plans with the older women of Athens (the Chorus of Old Women) to seize the Akropolis later that day. The women from the various regions finally assemble and Lysistrata convinces them to swear an oath that they will withhold sex from their husbands until both sides sign a treaty of peace. As the women sacrifice a bottle of wine to the Gods in celebration of their oath, they hear the sounds of the older women taking the Akropolis, the fortress that houses the treasury of Athens.
In Lysistrata there are two choruses—the Chorus of Old Men and the Chorus of Old Women. A Koryphaios leads both choruses. The Chorus of Men is first to appear on stage carrying wood and fire to the gates of the Akropolis. The Chorus of Men is an old and bedraggled bunch of men who have great difficulty with the wood and the great earthen pots of fire they carry. The men plan to smoke the women out of the Akropolis. The Chorus of Old Women also approaches the Akropolis, carrying jugs of water to put out the men's fires. The Chorus of Old Women is victorious in the contest between the choruses and triumphantly pours the jugs of water over the heads of the men. The Commissioner, an appointed magistrate, comes to the Akropolis seeking funds for the naval ships. The Commissioner is surprised to find the women at the Akropolis and orders his policemen to arrest Lysistrata and the other women. In a humorous battle, that involves little physical contact, the policemen are scared off. The Commissioner takes the opportunity to tell the men of Athens that they have been too generous and allowed too much freedom with the women of the city. As the policemen run off, the Commissioner and Lysistrata are left to argue about the Peloponnesian War. Lysistrata argues that the War is a concern for women especially and she adds her two cents as to how the city should be run, drawing an elaborate analogy to show that Athens should be structured as a woman would spin wool. Lysistrata tells the Commissioner that war is a concern of women because women have sacrificed greatly for it—women have given their husbands and their sons to the effort. Lysistrata adds that it is now difficult for a woman to find a husband. The women mockingly dress the Commissioner as a woman.
The next day, or perhaps some considerable time afterwards, the sex-strike devised at the beginning of the text, begins to take effect on the men. Lysistrata spots Kinesias, husband of Myrrhine, approaching the Akropolis. Kinesias has a full erection and is desperate for his wife. Myrrhine refuses to have intercourse with Kinesias until peace exists between Athens and Sparta. Kinesias tells Myrrhine that her child needs her, he needs her and he loves her and Myrrhine pretends to listen to his frustrated pleas. Myrrhine hints that she might make love to Kinesias, but delays by going repeatedly into the Akropolis to fetch things to make the couple comfortable. As Kinesias promises to only think about a treaty of peace for Athens and Sparta, Myrrhine disappears into the Akropolis and leaves her husband in great pain.
A Spartan Herald approaches the Akropolis and he, like Kinesias, suffers an erection. The Spartan describes the desperate situation of his countrymen and pleads for a treaty. Delegations from both states then meet at the Akropolis to discuss peace. At this point, all of the men have full erections. Lysistrata comes out of the Akropolis with her naked handmaid, Peace. While the men are fully distracted by Peace, Lysistrata lectures them on the need for reconciliation between the states of Greece. Lysistrata reasons that because both Athens and Sparta are of a common heritage and because they have previously helped one another and owe a debt to one another, the two sides should not be fighting. Using Peace as a map of Greece, the Spartan and Athenian leaders decide land rights that will end the war. After both sides agree, Lysistrata gives the women back to the men and a great celebration ensues. The play ends with a song sung in unison by the Chorus of Old Men and the Chorus of Old Women while everyone dances.
Character List
Lysistrata Lysistrata is an Athenian woman who is sick and tired of war and the treatment of women in Athens. Lysistrata gathers the women of Sparta and Athens together to solve these social ills and finds success and power in her quest. Lysistrata is the least feminine of the women from either Athens or Sparta, and her masculinity helps her gain respect among the men.
Kleonike Kleonike is the next-door neighbor of Lysistrata and is the first to show up at Lysistrata's meeting of women. Kleonike embraces her feminine side and is delighted that Lysistrata's scheme for peace involves garments like negligees.
Myrrhine If rank were imposed, Myrrhine would be the second strongest woman in Lysistrata. Myrrhine is able to seduce her husband, Kinesias, but she refuses sex with him just at the last minute.
Lampito Lampito is representative of Spartan women. Lampito is a large, well-built woman who American audiences might imagine with a thick Appalachian accent (by Arrowsmith's translation, Sparta was the Greek equivalent of the stereotypically South). Lampito brings the Spartan women into Lysistrata's plan.
Ismenia Ismenia is a Boitian girl who has a nice body, keeps herself well tended, and is quite possibly mute.
Korinthian Girl This lady accompanies Ismenia and Lampito to Lysistrata's meeting and is known for her vast posterior bodily feature.
Policewoman - The Policewoman kindly offers her shield up for the women to make a sacrifice upon.
Koryphaios of Men - The Koryphaios of Men, a stubborn and rather grouchy fellow, leads the Chorus of Old Men around Athens.
Chorus of Old Men - The Chorus of Old Men live up to their title; the chorus is made up of twelve old men who teeter around Athens attempting to keep the women in line. Although, unsuccessful in their civic duties, the Chorus of Old Men strike up some fantastical misogynistic melodies and are a generally comedic element of the play.
Koryphaios of Women - Like the Koryphaios of Men, the Koryphaios of Women leads the Chorus of Old Women around. The Koryphaios of Women leads a successful seizure of the Akropolis and outwits the men in every possible way.
Chorus of Old Women - The Chorus of Old Women seizes and then protects the Akropolis from the Chorus of Old Men. The Chorus of Old Women, although frail, fights to the last with the men and finds victory in the end.
Commissioner of Public Safety - The Commissioner of Public Safety is apparently the head of security and law in Athens, but is completely overwhelmed by the women and ends up being dressed as a woman himself. Lysistrata has a lengthy conversation with the Commissioner about the future of Athens and peace in the region, but the Commissioner is very slow to understand her logic.
Four Policemen - These Policemen are humiliated again and again by the women. The women, brandishing nothing but lamps, chamber pots and other various household utensils, scare these policemen away.
Kinesias - The needy, desperate clown that Myrrhine calls her husband. Kinesias is the first man to be affected by the sex strike and comes to the Akropolis, fully enflamed. Peace - Lysistrata's handmaid. Peace is the unclothed beauty of a woman whom Lysistrata displays and uses during her final plea for peace between Athens and Sparta. Terribly aroused and uncomfortable, the men quickly discuss the terms of a truce, all the while staring at Peace's body.

ada kah rasa syukur itu kita rasakan?

Mensyukuri yang Sedikit
Publikasi: 17/06/2004 17:46 WIBdisis
Orang yang tidak pernah memuji Allah atas nikmat air dingin yang bersih dan segar, ia akan lupa kepada-Nya jika mendapatkan istana yang indah, kendaraan yang mewah, dan kebun-kebun yang penuh buah-buahan yang ranum.
Orang yang tidak pernah bersyukur atas sepotong roti yang hangat, tidak akan pernah bisa mensyukuri hidangan yang lezat dan menu yang nikmat. Orang yang tidak pernah bersyukur dan bahkan kufur tidak akan pernah bisa membedakan antara yang sedikit dan yang banyak. Tapi ironisnya, tak jarang orang-orang seperti itu yang pernah berjanji kepada Allah bahwa ketika nanti Allah menurunkan nikmat kepadanya dan menyirami mereka dengan nikmat-nikmat-Nya maka mereka akan bersyukur, memberi dan bersedekah.
Dan, di antara mereka ada orang yang telah berikrar kepada Allah, "Sesungguhnya jika Allah memberikan sebahagian karunia-Nya kepada kami, pastilah kami akan bersedekah dan pastilah kami termasuk orang-orang yang saleh." Maka setelah Allah memberikan kepada mereka sebahagian dari karunia-Nya, mereka kikir dengan karunia itu, dan berpaling, dan mereka memanglah orang-orang yang selalu membelakangi (kebenaran). (QS At-Taubah: 75-76)
Setiap hari kita banyak melihat manusia model ini. Hatinya hampa, pikirannya kotor, perasaannya kosong, tuduhannya kepada Rabbnya selalu yang tidak senonoh, yang tidak pernah memberi karunia yang besarlah, tidak pernah memberinya rezkilah, dan yang lainnya. Dia mengucapkan itu ketika badannya sangat sehat dan serba kecukupan. Dalam kemudahan yang baru seperti itu saja, dia sudah tidak bersyukur. Lalu bagaimana jika harta yang melimpah, rumah yang indah, dan istana yang megah telah menyita waktunya? Yang pasti dia akan lebih kurang ajar dan akan lebih banyak durhaka kepada Rabbnya.
Orang yang bertelanjang kaki, karena tidak punya alas kaki mengatakan, "Saya akan bersyukur jika Rabbku memberiku sepatu." Tapi orang yang telah memiliki sepatu akan menangguhkan syukurnya sampai dia mendapatkan mobil mewah.
Kurang ajar sekali. Kita mengambil kenikmatan itu dengan kontan, namun mensyukurinya dengan mencicil. Kita tak pernah bosan mengajukan keinginan-keinginan kita, tapi perintah-perintah Allah yang ada di sekeliling kita lamban sekali dilaksanakan.
***Sumber: Laa Tahzan (Jangan Bersedih!), karya Dr. Aidh Al-Qarni, terbitan Qisthy Press.

Wednesday, August 04, 2004

apa kabar CINTA? semoga selalu merindukanNya

Jika kita mencintai sesorang kita akan senantiasa mendoakannya dia tidak berada disisi kita

Jangan simpan kata-kata CINTA pada orang yang tersayang sehingga dia meninggal dunia, lantaran kamu terpaksa catatkan kata-kata CINTA itu pada pusarannya. Sebaliknya ucapkan kata-kata CINTA yang terpendam dibenak mu itu sekarang selagi ada hayatnya

Cinta?

sungguh menyakitkan menCINTAI seseorang yang tidak mencintai mu, tetapi lebih menyakitkan lagi adalah mencintaI seseorangdan kamu tidak pernah memiliki keberanian untuk menyatakan CINTAmu padanya

Cintailah seseorang itu atas dasarsiapa dia sekarang dan bukan siapa dia sebelumnya. kisah silam tidak perlu diungkit lagi kiranya kamu benar menyintainya setulus hati